Break up or make up?

What is being loyal to one's man? not speaking about another man? or not sleeping with another man? I have no clues why couples have a break up as an outcome of infedility. Many sobbing men and women who've split for this reason... spare no chance to speak against their ex and scream out about their disastrous break up.
I have one simple statement to make, if you genuinely ever loved your partner, then is it worth blaming him or her? whatever may be the reason, even if its supposed to be infidelity. Always remember that attractions are temporary but genuine love is not.
I do not propagate forgiving someone who commits adultery because of my traditional Indian beliefs. I do so simply because though I firmly believe that forgiving is divine and I'am not her divinity, I can manage to cross off a break up because of infidelity. Then why can't those forgiving souls who claim to be in true love do it?
Love is supposed to be a "caged feeling". If it is all about being "caged up" then why refuse a blissful cage with a stupid thing like "break up"?
This article is dedicated to all my friends who have had a "past relationship", a relationship filled with love but broke up because of similar reasons.

Please Note: This is a posting where I have expressed my view. However it has nothing to do with my personal life.